Hi all-
Please bear with me here....I know this is a long post but I would greatly appreciate any feedback possible.
I am brand new to this group, but unfortunately not brand new to reflux. My son turned three August 1st and has been suffering from reflux (at least we think it's reflux) since birth. He was born near term at almost 35 weeks.
A little background info regarding his reflux and growth.
My son has been on and off the charts for both height and weight since around 9 months. He spit up constantly since birth but around 9 months to a year the spitting up turned to vomiting. He has NEVER been a good eater and had pretty bad texture aversions until almost two years. Somewhere around two years old he slowly quit vomiting so I thought the worst was over and at his two year wellness checkup he was at the 5th percentile for weight and at the 20th percentile for height (love those growth charts

) Currently he is below the 5th percentile for both height and weight. He put on 1.5 lbs and grew 1.5 inches from 2-3 years.
I won't go into all the minute details but it appears as if his reflux is making a comeback. Only now it's more of a silent reflux since he doesn't vomit all that often any more. Instead he will choke and cough when he eats. His appetite is HORRIBLE. I keep a feeding journal for him and a typical day for us is around 500-850 calories. An amazingly wonderful day --which is hardly ever--might be 1000 calories. Prevacid and Zantac have never seemed to help in any way.
We just finished up bloodwork and an upper GI which were all normal. I go over all of his symptoms constantly trying to find some sort of correlation between food, time of day, anything! So I'm wondering if anyone might have some experience or some feedback on some of his issues. I never really get much of any answers from the doctors and I'm not sure why. Sometimes I feel like I"m going crazy, but I simply cannot give up until I know for sure my son is healthy and not suffering or in any pain. Now that he is verbal he will tell me things like, "I get sick in my mouth" or if I ask him where it hurts he will open his mouth and point inside.
In addition to the normal choking and coughing while eating he has one other weird symptom. I know this may sound strange, but has anyone ever heard of a correlation between lowered body temp and reflux? Every time we give him a bath at night, after we take him out of the tub he gets very cold (toes turn slightly blue) he'll start to shiver and then the coughing and gagging begins....sometimes he will vomit. Before he turned two he would ALWAYS vomit after his bath. Has anyone ever heard of this before?
The next step for us is the scope which of course I don't want to do and I'm actually wondering if I should have him tested for allergies first before we go ahead with the scope. Has anyone ever done allergy testing first before the scope to make sure it's not EE (Eosinophilic Esophagitis) rather than reflux? Or is the scope inevitable?
Thanks for listening and all feedback is greatly appreciated!