Because of the reflux every single day is a struggle
Because of the reflux I dread feeding time
Because of the reflux I find myself resenting my helpless/faultless
infant and then feeling immense guilt over these feelings
Because of the reflux I cry every single day
Because of the reflux my friends have all given up on me because I can
never go out and loathe having visitors to our unkept house
Because of the reflux I look forward to Mondays when I can bring
Kieran to daycare instead of looking forward to Fridays when I have
the whole weekend in front of me to spend with her, and then feel
intense guilt for these feelings
Because of the reflux I am very depressed
Because of the reflux my relationship with my husband suffers
Because of the reflux we are broke due to multiple medications and
expensive formulas that don't work completely
Because of the reflux acquaintances don't bother asking how I'm doing
anymore because it's always the same and usually includes tears
Because of the reflux I worry about and count every single sip my
daughter takes of her formula because she needs every single sip
Because of the reflux I worry about my daughter in daycare but never
call to ask how she's doing because I can't bear to hear her crying in
the background
Because of the reflux I feel like an unfit mother and that I can do
nothing right
Because of the reflux I don't get to cuddle my baby, because it hurts
her to cuddle
Because of the reflux most days I don't get to take a shower and I
feel dirty and undignified
Because of the reflux I can't help but wonder if I should have had a
child at all
Because of the reflux I wince when I see pregnant women because I know
that they will have the cuddly, happy baby that I thought I would have
Because of the reflux I find myself wishing my daughter would grow up
just a little faster so that we can be past these horrible times,
where most Moms wish for time with their infants to stand still
Because of the reflux I can't take my daughter to get professional
pictures taken of her, she would have a meltdown
Because of the reflux I don't take my own photos of her because she's
usually crying and who wants to see photos of a crying baby?
Because of the reflux I have to interrupt her fleeting, happy morning
moments to administer nasty tasting medicines that don't totally work
Because of the reflux most days I can't figure out how I'm going to
make it another day
But I do make it another day and some days are good, a lot of days are
bad, but I love my daughter with every cell in my body and I just hope
that she senses this through all her pain.
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